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Why I Train Movement, Not Just Muscles 

A personal trainer is primarily focused on fitness. 

A movement specialist looks more closely at how a person moves. 

Instead of simply asking, “What exercise should we do?” a movement specialist asks, “How is this person moving, and why?” 

A personal trainer helps you get stronger and fitter.

A movement specialist helps you understand and improve how your body moves AND get stronger and fitter.

I don’t just prescribe exercises. I look at how you move. 

I train your body to move in more than one direction just like real life.  No one trips or reaches to catch something in a linear line.

I can recognize when an exercise isn’t serving you. 

If I see a movement creating compensation, losing quality, or exposing a joint to unnecessary stress, I can modify the movement, change the exercise, or address the underlying limitation. The goal isn’t to force your body to perform an exercise. The goal is to improve your ability to move. 

I am training you for the body you want to have years from now. 

My goal isn’t simply to get you through a workout today.

I want to help you build strength, mobility, balance, coordination, stability, and movement confidence that continue to serve you as you age. Because the goal of fitness isn’t just looking fit or completing a workout.

I train movement, not just muscles. 

I prepare you for the movements life actually demands. 

Life doesn’t move in straight lines.

You rotate. You reach. You bend. You step sideways. You change direction. You catch yourself when you lose your balance. You push, pull, carry, lift, and move around obstacles.

If you repeatedly train your body in only a few predictable movement patterns, you may become very good at those exercises without necessarily becoming better at moving through life.

My job is to give your body a broader movement vocabulary.

I pay attention to how you perform an exercise, not simply whether you can complete it. 

I don’t believe the answer to every problem is simply to get stronger. 

I’m thinking about the 70-year-old, 80-year-old, and 90-year-old version of you. 

I’m asking, “What do I need to help you maintain so you can continue doing what you love years from now?” 

A movement coach prepares you for unpredictable movement.

A workout can be completely controlled and predictable. 

Life isn’t. You trip, catch yourself, turn quickly, step sideways, reach from an awkward position, carry something unevenly, or change direction. 

Training those abilities gives you a more adaptable body. 

A movement coach doesn’t have to invent completely new movements to make someone stronger. They can take the movements a person already performs every day and teach them to perform those movements with better mechanics, better coordination, and greater strength. 

A trainer can make you stronger at an exercise.

A movement coach can help you become stronger at moving. 

Things I do as a movement coach that a personal trainer is not generally taught to do…

Individualizing an exercise instead of assuming the exercise is the answer

A movement specialist can take the same desired outcome and change the exercise based on the person’s body. Two people may both need stronger legs, but they may not need the same exercise, range of motion, stance, tempo, or progression. 

Teaching people how to feel and understand their own movement

This is a big one. A movement coach isn’t just making someone perform an exercise correctly while they’re watching, they’re teaching them to recognize what good movement feels like so they can eventually make better movement decisions themselves. 

Progressing movement complexity, not just resistance.

Traditional progression often means more weight, more reps, or more intensity. A movement specialist can progress someone by changing position, stability, coordination, range, direction, speed, balance, or complexity without necessarily adding weight. 

Using exercise to improve everyday movement rather than keeping “exercise” and “life” separate.

If someone struggles getting off the floor, carrying things, stepping over something, reaching behind themselves, getting in and out of a car, etc., those aren’t just random exercises, Those are the movements you can train. 

Knowing when NOT to progress.

This is an important specialty that gets overlooked. Sometimes the best progression isn’t heavier weight. It may be better control, better range of motion, better balance, or simply making the existing movement more efficient before adding another challenge. 

Connecting mobility and strength rather than treating them as separate goals.

Instead of saying, “You need to stretch” or “You need to get stronger,”  a movement coach can work on someone’s ability to control their body through the range of motion they have and progressively expand what they’re capable of controlling. 

Training adaptability.

A machine or highly controlled exercise teaches the body to perform that task. Movement training can teach the body to respond when the environment changes: different surfaces, different positions, different loads, different directions, unexpected movements. 

The goal is physical independence, not simply fitness.

This might ultimately be your biggest differentiator. Fitness asks, “How fit are you?” Movement specialization asks, “What can your body still do?” Those aren’t the same question. 

Training for fall recovery and not just single leg balance

Having your body automatically respond when you unexpectedly catch your toe and start to fall is a bigger win than learning to stand on one foot and balance for 30 seconds.

A movement specialist doesn’t just train you to perform movements. They train your body to respond when movement doesn’t go as planned. 

This is why my clients always FEEL so good not just strong!

They feel extremely capable and strong because our focus is MOVEMENT not just 3 sets of 10.

A Belly Full of Visceral Fat

25 years ago when I first discovered Insulin Resistance (IR), it was NOT something doctors talked about.

Matter of fact, the few doctors that did were ousted as crazy (my words).  THANKFULLY for one doctor that shared what it was and how it contributes to so many other “syndromes”, I was able to reverse mine before it was deemed I’d need meds.

Back then…they didn’t pressure you to be on meds until it was pretty bad.  Today…they pressure you to be on meds before even mentioning how to fix it naturally.

I don’t know where my desire for natural healing came from but for as long as I can remember I knew there were ways to heal ourselves.

I think it came from my memories growing up…

Dad ate Little Debbie Snack cakes and hot chocolate pudding over white bread and other sweets and junk like Frosted Flakes with extra sugar poured on top.

I can still feel myself grab that light blue sugar bowl with one end opening for a spoon and the other end opening for a pour.   I can (at this moment right now) feel myself open the pouring end and pour all over those already sweetened flakes until the top was covered!

And while I’m at it..why not a second bowl?  That’s about five (5) servings right there with probably ¼ to ½ cup white sugar on top.

No child needed that. BUT look at all the fortified vitamins and minerals it had.  We were feeding the children better, right?

I remember my mom liking mustard, horseradish, peppers, sauerkraut, and things of that nature.  

I also remember thinking “maybe when I’m older I’ll like mustard”.  I had no clue why it mattered but I thought my mom was cool so I hoped one day I would like mustard too.

I believe 100% I gained my coping skills regarding food from my dad.  

Just a couple weeks ago, my brother called me and while chatting he asked “hey do you remember driving us to school and doing that donut down on Tasker?  I remember, EVERY morning you eating LIttle Debbie Snack cakes on the way”.

Yep, that was my breakfast.  For over 16 years I ate like that.  That was the beginning of today’s heavily laden coping skills with cereals that we now call highly processed junk food.

But I learned that I have control over turning my genes on and off.  It’s called epigenetics.

My situation was not genetic.  It was HABITS handed down in my home.  

If you know my family, you’ll know that these were coping habits.  

I remember a train car had an accident and we were given a ton of boxes of Kellogg’s cereal and that was what we had many days for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

I know I’m not the only one who grew up like that.  Some are growing up like that and worse today.

25 years ago when I was about to have my third daughter, the doctor told me then I was ONE point away from being diabetic.  

Can you believe they didn’t offer me meds then nor after the pregnancy?

I can tell you I got on top of that right away and began researching for myself.  

With an abdominal measurement at 38″ NOT pregnant I needed to make a change!

It was a lot of really hard work emotionally and mentally but I did it.

In today’s world they push meds on you with the tiniest raise in your A1c.

You CAN change your health by LIFESTYLE changes.

You can decide which genes are on and which genes are off.  You get to decide if you’re overweight or normal weight.  You get to decide how strong you want to be and how mentally alert you want to be.

You are in charge of you!

Set the example for the children in your life!

They need you.

Writing on my soul

I NEVER realized how deep I wrote on my soul that my happiness would depend on my relationship with my adult children. 

I know this comes from a specific time in my childhood that I desperately needed it and couldn’t get it.  

I blame no one. 

We are all here to heal.  

It’s beginning to make sense that I so deeply waiting years, days, minutes, and even seconds to have a wonderful empty nest life that was still ao filled with my adult children that I would feel like a queen sitting atop my accomplishments of a wonderful family.

But for over two years now that is not how it is.

And I struggle to make sense of why I’m here if not for my children even in adulthood.

How did I get to this point?

How did I get to this thinking pattern that is just making its true presence known?

I was in a Facebook group for empty nesters and had to leave because it was so depressing watching grown women not want to live if their children wanted nothing to do with them.

Let alone Mother’s who jsut couldn’t seem to let the child grow up.

I was prepared for my children to go off and do great things. I really was.

I was excited for them to do better than me!

To grab life and go for a ride.

I couldn’t grow watching so many other women stay in their pool of sadness.

Ugh

I have actively worked through all these feelings looking for a way to be excited about life all by myself.

It doesn’t feel as exciting.

But I don’t want to be that mom that can’t move on.

I even convinced myself that my children have alwyas watched my behaviors so I need to keep making my behaviors strong and growing.

Because they may be in this mode someday and I need to give them something to hold on to.

If mom was able to do it, so can I!

But wow.

I did start working on this early.

I can’t imagine had I not bothered.

I can’t imagine being slapped with this feeling out of nowhere.

The best I have to go on is making sure they value themselves as a human.

If I can’t do that then I give them nothing.

So while it still hurts daily I will continue to move forward with the mindset of I need to be an example.

Being a mom was truly the best.

But what if not all my kids get to be a mom or dad.

Don’t o want them to value themselves anyway?

Ugh

I do. But I am struggling to value myself while feeling so alone.

But I will make it.

Like all other struggles in my life I have learned to take it one day at a time.

Wake up. Find a purpose in this day alone.

And pretty soon the hurt doesn’t hurt so bad.

Mom

I have loved being mom

I need to find me.

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My FAT LOSS journey without dieting!

Are you tired of getting weaker and fatter?

I was in 2006.

I said yes to becoming a fitness instructor while looking and feeling like this ⬇️

One year later (2007) I looked like this ⬇️

Two years later (2008) I looked like this ⬇️

Four years later started my own fitness business 2012

2022-Present

I never dieted!  I simply started out by exercising (and getting paid) and then when I saw my belly had lost ZERO I knew it was my eating habits (I had insulin resistance).

So I simply changed my eating habits by learning to eat LOW GLYCEMIC carbohydrates and eventually reversed my insulin resistance.

At one point life fell completely apart and while I did gain some weight, I knew exactly how to reverse it WITHOUT DIETING!

The ENTIRE TIME from 2006 – Present…I average 1800-2600 calories on a very regular basis!

Now I teach ladies how to reverse INSULIN RESISTANCE and take a HEALTH FIRST APPROACH to optimal health and fitness!

These ladies are coming out of this group feeling so CONFIDENT and strong that nothing stops them and their life is completely changed!

If you want to be a part of this…CLICK HERE and please message me with questions.

I am changing the world one lady at a time and I have a goal of over 1000 ladies this year!

These ladies will change their families and we will create a healthier community!

I’ve already made sure that health and fitness is a part of my son’s life!

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Me and my intent

Me, the damaged body Brenda. Me, the solopreneur, climbing my own ladder. Me, the Empty Nest Mom, alone and finding new. Me, the trainer wanting more challenges.

The big question is…what do I want? Where do I really want to go?

I do feel my answers need to include income. But just tonight I realized what if I simply listed what I super duper enjoy and want to be, have and do and if it doesn’t include income why stress?

Haha, because we all need money to live. Many of us want to grow. We want to personally develop ourselves into our own greatness.

I don’t really feel I’m contributing to this world if I don’t grow and develop into more continually.

I despise being sedentary. An occasional day or two for an intense rest but sedentary is not for me!

I want to HEAL. I want to physically get strong. I want to grow my income to 10 times what it is. I want to visit my children at any time I choose.

I want to travel to all the state parks in the US. I want to own a house even though I thought I did not. I want to buy my mom a house.

So many things I want to do. I seem to be in a conundrum of lonliness because finding someone to share my joy and grow with me is scarce!

I hear the journey to the top is very lonely so I must remember that I’m no different than anyone else and this is a journey I am going through.

The amount of growth I’ve experienced since even July of this year is phenomenal. So I must push for my #impossiblegoals and see what life is like on the other side.

I feel the Empty Nest version of me is at a fork in the road, as is the trainer in me. I feel excitement about becoming an entrepreneur over a solopreneur. I feel excitement about creating a online program that will help thousands of people simplify the human basics to weight management and help them start enjoying life as they move toward their happy maintenance!

I feel excitement at visiting my adult children each time I “want” to and I feel excitement thinking about my mom having a place of her own!

I’m super excited to get some of my pain under control and even reversed! I’m ready to become a new person.

I keep hearing that when life feels like a super ball of mess as if it was about to all crumble is exactly when you’re about to have a growth spurt!

So let’s do it!

Let this be my record of intent!